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I understand hate.
That feeling of disgust that sits at the pit of your stomach when you think of something or someone you wish simply didn't exist.
I understand wanting to eliminate that source of that seemingly wants to take over your life, that by simply existing, changes you or casts a shadow upon who you are.
There's a reason love and hate are so closely tied together - both emotions bring about physical changes and you can't help but want to expel and express those emotions.
What I don't understand and with great hope never will, is prejudice. Prejudice has many symptomes, hate is only one of them and it is such an impersonal hate that I can't understand it. Hate (like love) are so personal and energy consuming, I'm always baffled as to why you'd bother to hate a group of people.
Of course, I understand how it works, how it expressed, how it is reproduced... all that. I've made it my business to counter all of that.
But for the life of me I do not get it.
I do not get how people (like retired US General John Sheehan) can say things like the fact that the Dutch army has openly gay soldiers caused the massacre and genocide in Srebrenica.
Why?
Because "homosexuality" is bad for morale.
For Fuck Fucking Fuckity Sake!!!!!!!!!!!
My rage issues resurfaced, before I did my breathing exercises. Beyond him being totally and utterly wrong, saying things like that are is simple incitement and I doubt anyone will do anything about it.
Queers are always fair game for slander.
And way to completely reduce that kind of tragedy to absurdity. This beyond a simple case of arrogant ignorance.
Fucking hell.
That feeling of disgust that sits at the pit of your stomach when you think of something or someone you wish simply didn't exist.
I understand wanting to eliminate that source of that seemingly wants to take over your life, that by simply existing, changes you or casts a shadow upon who you are.
There's a reason love and hate are so closely tied together - both emotions bring about physical changes and you can't help but want to expel and express those emotions.
What I don't understand and with great hope never will, is prejudice. Prejudice has many symptomes, hate is only one of them and it is such an impersonal hate that I can't understand it. Hate (like love) are so personal and energy consuming, I'm always baffled as to why you'd bother to hate a group of people.
Of course, I understand how it works, how it expressed, how it is reproduced... all that. I've made it my business to counter all of that.
But for the life of me I do not get it.
I do not get how people (like retired US General John Sheehan) can say things like the fact that the Dutch army has openly gay soldiers caused the massacre and genocide in Srebrenica.
Why?
Because "homosexuality" is bad for morale.
For Fuck Fucking Fuckity Sake!!!!!!!!!!!
My rage issues resurfaced, before I did my breathing exercises. Beyond him being totally and utterly wrong, saying things like that are is simple incitement and I doubt anyone will do anything about it.
Queers are always fair game for slander.
And way to completely reduce that kind of tragedy to absurdity. This beyond a simple case of arrogant ignorance.
Fucking hell.
