Baby what-now?
Jun. 16th, 2009 02:24 pmWhy?
Why do I keep finding and invariably reading about articles that reduce sexuality to a News spectacle AND on par with bisexual erasure.
Seriously, world, what the fuck?
In the, admittedly, populists article Baby dykes: the young girls who swap their sexuality, meaningful relationships and sexual diversity is reduced to, as mentioned, a News spectacle and bisexuality is no where to be found.
See, the contradiction with in this opening paragraph is disturbing to me.
First of all... "part-time lesbianism"?
Sexual identity may be considered in our post-modern sensibility a bit more fluid, but the lives that people live within those identity are not.
To qualify a lesbian experience as "part-time" is to immediately diminish it - obviously the majority of the time she's straight and that's how it should be.
Also, bisexual people are not part time anything! Our identities are as stable as the staunchest homo or hetero or cis or trans or any other fluid-identity person in the world.
To be fluid, does not mean that one is not stable - is water inconsistent?
I think not.
In addition, the wording "malleable sexuality" is misleading. If something is malleable that means it is influenced and manipulated from by an external force - that is, our sexual experiences are not actually true since they were manipulated by others to seem... like anything.
Thus, if I kissed a girl and I liked it, in the realm of malleability, the whole idea of liking anything, of having a choice in what we do with our sexuality is canceled out.
Yeah, fuck that.
The whole article is rife with quotes like this and I wouldn't mind going through it and tearing it apart.
Maybe later, if there's any interest.
Why do I keep finding and invariably reading about articles that reduce sexuality to a News spectacle AND on par with bisexual erasure.
Seriously, world, what the fuck?
In the, admittedly, populists article Baby dykes: the young girls who swap their sexuality, meaningful relationships and sexual diversity is reduced to, as mentioned, a News spectacle and bisexuality is no where to be found.
[...]Emphasis by me.
Along with Katy Perry, Peaches Geldof has now kissed a girl — and she liked it. With that one act she has joined part-time lesbianism, taking advantage of the younger generation's complete acceptance of malleable sexuality.
See, the contradiction with in this opening paragraph is disturbing to me.
First of all... "part-time lesbianism"?
Sexual identity may be considered in our post-modern sensibility a bit more fluid, but the lives that people live within those identity are not.
To qualify a lesbian experience as "part-time" is to immediately diminish it - obviously the majority of the time she's straight and that's how it should be.
Also, bisexual people are not part time anything! Our identities are as stable as the staunchest homo or hetero or cis or trans or any other fluid-identity person in the world.
To be fluid, does not mean that one is not stable - is water inconsistent?
I think not.
In addition, the wording "malleable sexuality" is misleading. If something is malleable that means it is influenced and manipulated from by an external force - that is, our sexual experiences are not actually true since they were manipulated by others to seem... like anything.
Thus, if I kissed a girl and I liked it, in the realm of malleability, the whole idea of liking anything, of having a choice in what we do with our sexuality is canceled out.
Yeah, fuck that.
The whole article is rife with quotes like this and I wouldn't mind going through it and tearing it apart.
Maybe later, if there's any interest.