No I am not equating BDSM (consensual) with rape but I do have issues with it so I just included it in my list of squicks that also has triggers for me. And I've seen far too much in the Harry Potter fandom, which is disturbing for me when the characters engaged in it are teenagers (and yes, there are authors out there who've written the characters as underage or on the other hand, engage in age-play).

Again, I am not slamming consensual BDSM. It is simply not my thing. And I only included it as an example but this is not in any way meant to convey that I equate it w/ rape.