As I wrote, no one should police queerness, there isn't one way to be queer!

I'll say what I wrote above in a comments above:
Self identification is an important thing and it's hard when there's no word for what you are, or when words that exist don't sit well with you, but do kind of fit.

Little boxes are little prisons.

I wish saying "I'm just me" was enough in this world. One day...

I hope you don't mind a c/p response!