Backhanded compliments are not what I consider appropriate.

Comments on my weight and hair or any part of my body are not acceptable, why? Because I say so and I have my reasons that do not need to be divulged at this time.
There are very few people with whom I can speak about those two issues and be comfortable about it.
It is my problem because I'm forced to deal with it and others telling me, duh, that I'm being over sensitive... it's #8 on the list.

This was a short post, but duly noted on the length thing, I'll try to remember.