Gee, I'm sorry that other people are allowed to state the obvious in this forum, but I'm not. Maybe it's got something to do with my hetero-sexuality?
My comment was meant to be one of commiseration. It's difficult to get people to think that they're not special.
I didn't say that you should stop working at it. I was commiserating that these things are difficult and take a lot of time. Obviously, if you don't do something then things won't get better by themselves.
I'm sorry if you thought mentioning education was patronizing. It's the only thing I can think of that will help in the long term. I am now unsure of what sort of comment I can make here, besides "I <3 you", which will be accepted.
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Maybe it's got something to do with my hetero-sexuality?
My comment was meant to be one of commiseration. It's difficult to get people to think that they're not special.
I didn't say that you should stop working at it. I was commiserating that these things are difficult and take a lot of time. Obviously, if you don't do something then things won't get better by themselves.
I'm sorry if you thought mentioning education was patronizing. It's the only thing I can think of that will help in the long term. I am now unsure of what sort of comment I can make here, besides "I <3 you", which will be accepted.