Wow, I could start a whole discussion here about why Riely was, IMO, her worst, but it's after midnight here and I'm tired.

Rain check?

As for Xander of all the Scoobies I was sure he's be the one to be gay and not Willow, to me he was always very asexual until the third season and he lost his virginity to Faith and ever then, she was the sexy one.