You can keep pretending no one ever talked to you about those things, so people will have to re-explain what was explained, but it's just tiring.
You know very well I didn't tell you "Oh, it's hard, don't do it", but "If you keep going they will never train another person to your proffesional level". So this is besides the point.
I didn't say "If it's hard don't do it". I said "People first". That also means not risking anyone's lives by taking someone handaling a trauma to an essensial position, because they may stop functioning (either with or without taking a gun, shooting other people and themselves - something I hope Mel never does).
People come first, so you train extra amount of people for the important positions, So you don't call on those who are unable to do the job, so you risk as little lives as you can.
I'm not against communities, but no one should pay a price one's not willing to. If one would rather die than do, one should not be forced to do.

I think i'd rather stop here. I know what your stand is, I don't think it should prevent you from being supportive, and I don't see any point in digging my beliefs here. It's not the matter in discussion, and it won't matter anything at all.